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It
is always healthy to
ask this question. Am
I in the right job???
Most people would readily
agree that they are
in a job merely by an
accident, there was
no planning on their
part, and that they
have not followed a
well-planned career
path.
And
if you have landed in
a wrong job, it is going
to affect or is already
affecting your relationship
with your loved ones,
with your friends and
family members. It is
time to take some corrective
measures.
"I
was looking for a job,
was just out of college,
my friend knew somebody
who could put me up
as a car sales executive,
and in my desperation
for a job I jumped to
it, and now for 2 years
I am stuck here, and
I am very unhappy, I
want to do something
else, like creating
brands or work on marketing
ideas or something like
that," says Shankaran
in an interview.
Asking
this question is a very
bold step because most
people consciously or
subconsciously avoid
it for it's easier to
let the status quo be.
This means looking in
the mirror, at your
unhappy face, and that
is not a pleasant thing
to do. Or questioning
your choices in life
and if the answer is
that 'no, probably you
didn't make the right
choice and you have
been rather stupid,"
it hits hard.
You
may be in the wrong
job for two reasons,
either you made a wrong
career choice or you
made the right career
choice but the job that
you are currently doing
doesn't suit your temperament
or personality type.
The boss is well, bossy,
and your colleagues
smirk and the office
environment 'stinks'.
If the problem is former
it is a serious one,
if the problem is latter
you just need to find
another job in the same
industry with friendly
atmosphere or environment
more suited to your
temperament.
People
who are happy with their
jobs have most likely
to be those whose work
reflects their deeper
interests, their inner
personality types. They
like what they are doing.
You
need to ask:
Are
you enjoying your work?
Think of your interests,
skills and talents and
then ask does your job
have any relation to
that? And you will have
your answer. If the
answer is 'no', time
to rethink about your
job. You know it when
you are enjoying your
work.
Unhappiness
or dissatisfaction sets
in when you realize
that your personality
type is in contradiction
with your current job.
That it is at odds with
your real interests
in life. If you are
artistic by nature,
an accounts job won't
suit you. Problems arise
when you make such a
choice, influenced by
circumstances or friends,
in contradiction to
your basic nature. Or
sometimes simply to
make money but you won't
be satisfied even if
the pay is 'cause of
envy' to your cousin.
What
do you want from a job?
Do you want social status,
financial security,
opportunity to travel,
work-life balance, friendly
environment, flexibility
of working hours? If
your job is not giving
you what you want, what
you value, then it is
time to move on, explore
new job opportunities.
Are
you simply bored and
want a change? You may
find the current job,
which was quite a fun
when you joined, to
have turned boring now.
A perfectly valid reason
to switch job. Only
analyze if you have
not been too jumpy to
decide the job is boring.
Also may be at this
juncture in life, you
want a new experience,
you want a change, you
want a new challenge.
If that is the case,
then too, changing job
is not a bad idea.
Do
you feel underutilized?
Your current job has
not put all your potent
skills to their maximum
use. In such a scenario
you may feel that you
are not operating at
your maximum potential.
You feel grossly underused
and feel frustrated.
Continuing in such a
job for a long time
is not very healthy.
Are
you learning anything
new? In your current
job you may not be learning
anything new. You have
saturated yourself and
the tasks have almost
become repetitive. It
is easy to settle in
such a cushy situation.
But if you are not learning
new things, it is better
to face challenges of
a new work environment,
new systems rather than
stick around a job where
you are not learning
new things any more
and your growth as an
individual has hit a
plateau.
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