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Harmonious relation with your colleagues is critical not only for your mental and emotional well-being but also for your future growth within the company.

The general principles that apply to good human behavior outside the office are effective in fostering stress-free relations with colleagues within the company too.

The most important thing to remember to improve relations at work is that you should understand whenever you say anything, or do anything, that is going to affect others, you are dealing with emotions. This basic understanding can save you from many difficult situations and help you strike good relations with others. When, how and how much you say is very critical.
For example, if you know that your colleague has done something wrong, or that some mistake has occurred on his/her part, and the situation is rather difficult one, you should hold back part of your criticism, criticize but don't go whole hog, point the mistake out but keep the tone soft. This attitude is critical and can save you in many difficult situation.
If you want, when the things calm down, explain your colleague the whole mistake in an understanding tone.
If in general you keep a positive attitude and see a silver lining in dark clouds (that is when things seem to go wrong, the sales figures are falling or that an advertising campaign has backfired) you can bond better with colleagues. Everybody likes to be with a person who is optimistic and sees hope in difficult times. However, you should be realistic in your judgment otherwise you may be considered as habitual optimistic (in other words plain stupid).
Don't ever forget to compliment others when they do some good work and always share credit when you are working on a project with others. Don't hog the credit alone even if you are in a position to do so. This will soften the strong competitive spirit in others and make them comfortable to be around you since they won't feel threatened by you.

And if you are a person who delivers promises, keeps his/her words, you are bound to be popular with colleagues. This is such a rare quality these days.
And lastly, it is not enough to know just the names of your colleagues or where he/she stays. You need to really know their distinctive personalities, what they are like.
Their likes or tastes in music, movies and other things of life and also their various family and personal situations. This can help them gain confidence in you. But never be too pushy on questioning others on their personal lives. If you pester them with personal question they will run away from you as if you were some plague or something. You should develop such a demeanor that they open up to you on their own. Know when to ask personal questions and where to draw boundaries. People tend to whisk themselves away from colleagues who get too personal too fast. Go slow and know when to withdraw.
On the whole, be positive, cheerful, encouraging and supportive.

     
 
     
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