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For
centuries man has tried
to define love, to capture
its essence, to reach
through words and thoughts
to its very core. But
by and large, love has
escaped the clutches
of words, cages of definitions.
It floats free as an
abstraction, as music,
as a lyrical lore and
continues to claim its
victims, innocent young
hearts, all through
centuries.
None
have been able to click
on "escape"
or "delete"
buttons when face to
face with power of love.
The
dictionary defines love
as deep affection and
fondness. In a generalized
sense, love is a strong
attraction or a magnetic
pull coupled with intense
caring for a thing or
an activity or a person.
However,
we are talking here
about love between man
and woman or two persons.
It most certainly has
a quality that separates
it from love one feels
for one's child, parents,
or love for books, music,
sports, nature, or even
towards one's own self.
Love
between man and woman
is the most profound
experience, an out of
the ordinary occurrence
and is often coupled
with desire for physical
intimacy with the other
for its ultimate expression.
It has even been said
to be a magical or metaphysical
experience.
It
is rather strange to
think when love happens
you say 'I have fallen
in love". It can
not be just a coincidence
that this phrase, often
used without introspection
or speculation, can
really give us a clue
to how it feels to be
in love.
There
must be a sense of falling
from a great height,
like a feather, light
weight, there is a feeling
of lightness, of happiness,
of surrender. In this
fall resides a lover's
rise. A person who has
not fallen in love has
never risen in life,
as wise men say.
In
love you surrender.
In love you give. In
love you care. In love
you accept. In love
you cease to matter
alone. The other becomes
part of you. The object
of your love envelopes
your soul, your thoughts,
your being.
The
Beatles stars John Lennon
and Paul McCartney created
the song "All you
need is love".
Mahatma Gandhi has said
"Love never claims,
it only gives".
Poet Janos Arany says
"In dream and in
love, there are no impossibilities".
It
seems nature has conspired
for us to fall in love.
Let's love and let's
live.
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