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Many
products in the market
are made compatible
with each other. Bulbs
have sockets they can
nicely fit into. DVDs
are made of the sizes
that are exact as the
slot in your DVD player.
Mobile chargers are
made compatible with
the handsets they come
with. This is essential
for them to work as
one unit. Market can
manufacture, it can
customize, it can tailor
make products. It is
called 'standardization'.
But
human beings can not
be customized, can not
be made to order, and
can not be standardized.
We all come in variety
of hues, voices, tastes,
likes, dislikes, and
energy levels. We can
not look for our compatible
partner like we look
for products.
Compatibility
is a search, a discovery
and question of being
open and true to the
self.
It
is the nectar so very
essential for a happy
married life. If you
are not compatible with
each other trouble is
bound to show up its
ugly face at some point
or the other howsoever
hard you may try to
deny it or delay it
by suppressing the doubts
in your mind.
To
find that perfect or
near-perfect mate who
so nicely meshes up
with all your wires
that magic begins, that
it rings of a miracle,
that it sounds like
music, is a life-time
quest to say the least.
For a happy fulfilling
life you need somebody
who understands your
need, somebody who knows
it when you are upset
and cheers you up, somebody
who knows what tickles
you, somebody who knows
when to leave you alone,
somebody who knows when
to take you in arms
and kiss you.
Compatibility
doesn't mean your partner
is just like you, bur
rather that he/she resides
in a similar mental
and emotional landscape
as you are and as the
popular way of saying
goes
with whom
your wavelength matches.
Marriage
is the most important
decision in your life.
Your life's whole happiness
depends on it. Whether
you are about to enter
into a marriage or are
already into one, finding
out the compatibility
level with your partner
is very essential.
How
do you know if you are
compatible with your
partner? There is no
quick-fix formula to
it. It can be a slow
discovery as you go
along and spend more
and more time with each
other and observe reactions
to various situations.
But a compatibility
test can help you find
out this.
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