When you're upset or angry about something your partner does or fails to do, do you find it easy to tell her/him about it?

Can you reveal your weaknesses and worries to your partner without fear of embarrassment, criticism or judgment?

Do you check with each other about money concerns that affect both of you? When it comes to finances, do you usually agree on what to spend your money on?

Who will pay the bills and keep the checkbook?

What are your convictions about the use of credit cards?

What are your convictions about other debts (car loans, mortgages, etc.)?

Do you believe that your partner understands the importance of the work that you do and respects the time you need to do it?

How will you make decisions once you are married?

Do you discuss important decisions and the impact they will have on both of you?

Are your needs for intimacy being met?

Do you find that agreements you've made can be altered without huge upset?

Where do you want to live?

In what setting would you want to live (i.e. city, suburb, small town, rural, plains, mountains, desert, coastal, etc.)?

What do you expect your standard of living to look like after five years of marriage?

Who will prepare each meal?

What types of food will you eat?

How often do you want to eat out?

How clean do you want your home to be? What does "clean" mean to you?

Who will do each of the following?
-Laundry & ironing
-Purchasing groceries
-Automobile maintenance
-Home repairs and yard work
-General household cleaning
-Cleaning bathrooms
-Making the bed