Do you want to have children? If so, how many and when do you want to start?

What would you do if you cannot conceive children of your own?

What is your view on adoption?

What is your view on birth control?

If you do have children, who will be the primary nurturer/caregiver of your children?

How will you discipline your children?

How often do you want to invite people to your home?

What kind of entertaining do you expect to do (formal, informal, lavish or simple)?

What will be the role of television in your lives and what guidelines will you have?

What about movies?

How will your personal friendships change after marriage?

How will you relate to opposite-sex friends?

What hobbies or recreational pursuits will you pursue individually? Together? How often will you pursue them?

How do you feel about having alcoholic beverages in your home?

Where will you spend major holidays? How will you decide?

What expectations do you have for celebrating holidays?

What expectations do you have for religion in your life?

What will you do during your vacations?

How will you celebrate birthdays and anniversaries?

How much will you spend on gifts for family, friends and each other?

How will you spend your weekends?

How do you think your relationship to your parent(s) will change after you are married?

How much time do you anticipate spending with your parents and in-laws?

What other relatives do you expect to be involved in your life? How?

How involved do you want your parents and in-laws to be in your children's lives? How will you accomplish this?

And finally, if this questionnaire has brought out any issues that were not asked, please discuss them in full too.