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"Marriage
is a natural and beautiful
institution between
a man and a woman. It's
wrong for judges and
politicians to destroy
marriage, which is the
very foundation of society."
--- Randy Thomasson
(executive
director, campaign for
Californian Families)
When mankind's first
couple, Adam and Eve,
was roaming the Garden
of Eden, marriage was
too far from their minds,
one would guess. Since
there was no human soul
inhabiting the planet
earth then, they didn't
need to declare their
natural bonding to anyone.
If
there were anyone else,
they would have, and
then there could have
been celebration in
the presence of others
and thus Adam and Even
would have publicly
entered into an institution
of marriage, without
a legal certificate
though.
Since
the first man and woman,
the mother and father
of all of us, mythologically
speaking, several couples
have got united in a
bond, which is legally
binding, socially sanctioned
and is completed through
rituals with all the
festivities and celebrations
in the presence of family
members and friends.
Laws
of marriage are found
in the Hindu scriptures
in the writings of Manu.
Manu Smrti dates back
to 200 bc.
However,
any authentic recorded
history of the beginning
of institution of marriage
is almost impossible
to trace. But institution
of marriage has existed
in almost all societies,
even before the idea
of love and romance
took root in cultures
around the world.
Human
need for association
with the opposite sex
has been deeply recognized
by various communities
and religions. It is
this recognition which
is the root for the
emergence of institution
of marriage. The intent
is that couples take
responsibility towards
each other and remain
committed. Also, through
this institution society
can arrange itself into
neat family units and
bring about coherency
and security to all.
The
institution is not a
private bond between
a man and a woman but
essentially a publicly
recognized contract,
a family unit, which
gives its consent to
a man and a woman to
legally engage in sexual
relationship, procreate,
nurture and provide
legal and homely security
to children.
The
family lineage and history,
issues of inheritance
and security of property
and bonding of blood
relations for generations
all emanate only through
this institution.
In
our times, many men
and women tie the nuptial
knot after they fall
in love or at least
come to know each other.
The institution of marriage
and rituals performed
to enter the institution
are public declaration
of their love and desire
to be with each other.
In
spite of the fact that
traditional marriage
has become a brunt of
several jokes today
and is being scoffed
at by many, the bond
of marriage can be sweet
and full of warmth.
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